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Here, gathered in our beloved South Dakota, are a few members of our Williamson / Mattson Clan. Charles and Luella are to be blamed (be kind, they didn't know what they were doing). We're generally a happy bunch and somewhat intelligent (notwithstanding our tenuous grasp on reality). I'm also proud to say that most of us still have our teeth.

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Family Additions to be Thankful for this Thanksgiving Eve

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove,

Hello All,
Members or our American Dynasty are gathering from all parts of the nation to celebrate Thanksgiving. Many members of our extended family will be feasting at the home of Autumn and Derek Turley in American Fork. There are rumors 50 will be in attendance. Some think Autumn and Derek fools for surrendering their home to this Clan gathering. Others think them brave. I'm told Derek is on the phone right now as I type this post increasing the value of his home owners insurance to cover damaged sheet rock, furniture, windows, tile and paintwork. Derek is a wise man indeed.

Earlier today anyone shopping at Winco would have seen me artfully navigating the isles in search of cranberries, soda and cups. I faced a serious moral dilemma when faced with two different brands of cranberries. On my left were the Wyinco generic cranberries. On my right cans of Ocean Spray cranberries. The generic cranberries were 0.65 cents a can. The Ocean Spray cranberries were $1.15 a can. What was I to do? Normally I wouldn't give it a second thought - generic it would be.

My conscious got the best of me as I reached for the 'cheap' cans. I wondered what the crowd of 50 at our Thanksgiving feast would think of my decision. I pondered my choices for a few minutes and settled on a plan of action. Instead of bringing the unopened cans - evidence of my thriftiness (a good character trait but easily misunderstood for stinginess), I could open the cans at home, empty the contents into bowls, and take them that way to Autumn's home. Who would be the wiser? On the other hand, the extra effort at decanning and preparing would be suspected by those who know me best.

"What are you hiding?" would be Jilane's question.

"Why would you go to the effort of opening the cans and bringing them in bowls," Janice would chime in.

"You, didn't...... did you?" would be Luella's shocking revelation.

A quiet would fall over the 50 gathered guests. Gasps of horror and contempt at my attempt to pass generic cranberries as brand named Ocean Spray would echo through the great room. It would be as if I was trying to pass dog food as pâté. My punishment would be a plate at the child's table. Never again would I be allowed to shop for family gatherings unchaperoned.

I put the generic cans down, swallowed at the price difference, and picked up 8 cans of Ocean Spray Cranberries. I hope they are all proud of my sacrifice. I will not be quietly bringing my contributions to the table unannounced. I will wait for all the quests to arrive and a lull in the conversation before pulling the Wynco bag out from under my chair.

"Oh, I almost forgot. Here are the CRANBERRIES," I'll say with much bravado, expecting applause and well deserved credit for not going cheap.

Thanksgiving Eve find our families grateful for new additions to our family tree. Our American Dynasty continues to grow and expand.

Welcome Kellen Scott Tolley to your extended family



Kellen is the newborn son of Nicole Burrows and Brady Tolley. Baby and mother are doing fine. The Tolley family live in Colorado.

Welcome Naomi Costa to your extended family



Naomi is the newborn daughter of Ashley Delgrosso and Mike Costa. They live in Utah.

Welcome Jessica Bare to our extended family



Brayden Bodily, son of Jilane Williamson and Kevin Bodily married Jessica Bare. They are both students at Utah Valley University and live in Eagle Mountain, Utah.

Sunday, November 20, 2011

The First Results of the Williamson DNA Analysis

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello Williamsons,
The test results are in on the Y Williamson chromosome. The Y chromosome is passed from father to son virtually unchanged over time, therefore the test results of my Y chromosome will apply to all male Williamsons who are descendants of our common grandfathers George Matthew Williamson and then on to his father, Matthew Williamson and then further up the ancestral tree back to a common male ancestor 30,000 years ago (mind boggling isn't it?).


The test results are given above. The map shows the distant history of our common Y chromosome, stretching back to the middle east. We are classified in the R1b haplogroup (more on our haplogroup in another post).

Armed with this information, Ancestry.com compared my Y chromosome to all others in its data bank. A portion of the results are listed below:


And now the mystery deepens. According to the test results, my DNA matches within 1 to 3 generations with someone named Aaron Williamson (the dark orange represents the closest matches possible).

I found Aaron's email and made inquiries thinking I was on the verge of solving one of our family's greatest mysteries - who were the parents of Matthew Williamson? I have a theory based on all available evidence outlined in the following post from the family history blog. (click to read and review).

Today I heard from Aaron Williamson. Portions of his email are below:

Victor,

Sorry for the delayed response, but do see where it looks like we're a close DNA match, but don't have a Matthew Williamson or Selina Dandrige in my line.

I haven't had a lot of family information passed down to me, but from what I've found on Ancestry.com, think I've traced my line back to a Thomas Williamson 1720-1774 who died in Brumsfield Parish, Virginia.

Regards,
Aaron Williamson

I looked at Aaron's public family tree.



And the mystery deepens. According to the DNA results there should be a common ancestor within 1 to 3 generations. You're looking at Aaron Williamson's family tree out to where our 'common' ancestor should be. I can't find one, even after spend all morning and most of this afternoon searching.

And so, this DNA test, meant to answer this genealogy query, has opened even more questions and mysteries than it solved.

The Fortress has one very unhappy occupant today.

Simply,
Victor

Sunday, November 13, 2011

Annette and Lisa. The Last Two Paragraphs in a Family's Story

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello All,
The Great Room's window is dripping with a late Autumn rain. The hillside and valley below lie under a blanket of gray. Is it winter's way of sending an early greeting? If so, I'm inclined not to accept. My issue with Winter is the snow. I loved the snow once. An approbation that has disappeared over the years. My feelings toward snow changed when the Fortress was built with a driveway so steep mountain climbing gear was needed to get to the sidewalk. Try shoveling that.

Today we enjoy more pictures from our early days in Rapid City as we labor our way through one of my earlier photo albums. Last week the spotlight rested on Kevin. This week, the camera finds a darling in Annette. Oh, Lisa worms her way into several of the photographs, along with one of Luella. It is expected. Lisa and 'Nettie' were closer in age than the original six siblings.

I chose to put the pictures in a slideshow.

Enjoy a few wistful moments on 38th Street......

Simply,
Victor

Sunday, November 6, 2011

Kevin Williamson, A Few Pictures Over Five Decades



Kevin Williamson Today

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello All,
A theme for this Sunday's post emerged from my afternoon rummage through the dusty yellowed pages of another old family photo album. I call this, Kevin Williamson through the ages, a celebration of his 50th birthday celebrated last June. I invite you to enjoy a few old pictures of my younger brother taken over the last five decades.


Kevin's Fifth Grade Picture at Canyon Lake Elementary School, Rapid City.
Color photography hadn't quite reached the backwoods of South Dakota in 1973. We made do with black and white tin types. Notice the turtle neck.......

Kevin Williamson's 6th Grade picture. Canyon Lake Elementary. 1974.
Yes, we have color! And again I ask you to notice the turtle neck. If memory serves me correctly all seven of us had our 'picture takin / church clothes' brought out on Sundays and school picture days. Once we got home the clothes were promptly taken off our backs and put away for the Sunday Meeting.


Kevin with his new bike. Kevin was one to be mindful of style, so if his unusual shirt seems dated to you, it wasn't back then. Boys wore more color in the 70's than they do now. Shirts were tucked in, shorts were tight and white knee socks were expected if one wanted to be socially secure.

This is our Junior High Kevin. Kevin was a student at West Junior High, Rapid City. The pictures location is a mystery to me.


This is what happens to Polaroid pictures as they age. Again, a Junior High Kevin with friend.


Kevin was brought up on stage during some kind of talent show I believe held in the Rapid City Ward House's Gym. Its the old, get down on all fours then the cup of water is placed on your back. Yep, you're stuck. The water will end up on you no matter what you do to get out of the situation.

Kevin with Brad Hougan, one of his best high school buddies. We were out and about in the Black Hills that day.

Kevin and Kim. Christmas 1977. Kim was 20. Kevin was 16. I was on an LDS mission in England at the time. Notice the Santa atop the tree. That ornament stayed with us all through our childhood. We still used it long after we had the money to buy a new one. It made the tree a Christmas Tree.

Kevin's High School Senior Picture. 1979.

Kevin. Unknown age. Unknown place. Unknown reason for the smile. The cupboard looks bare. This may be from his starving, struggling time in Los Angeles.




Finally, the Kevin of today with Kristin, his best friend and partner.

Sunday, October 30, 2011

Our Life on Signal Heights, Rapid City. 1959-1965

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello All,
Sitting atop a small range of hills in the center of Rapid City is a neighborhood called Signal Heights. Charles and Luella purchase a two bedroom, one bath duplex at 39 East Signal Drive on Signal Heights. Our small family of four had outgrown their trailer parked outside of town near Black Hawk. Charles had a stable job with the South Dakota Dept. of Transportation so renting in Rapid City seemed like a good move for our growing family.

Today for our digital gathering, I've posted pictures from the time we spent on Signal Heights. My first memories come from this small home on a dusty hill.

Victor, June 1959

Here are two pictures from my first birthday. Luella says I wasn't much of a cuddlier. I'd push her away whenever she solicited an unwanted hug and kiss. There was only so much of that kind of thing I could stomach. I guess you could say my tolerance with familiarity was set at a very low threshold.


A learning moment captured on film for all time. See flame, think flame is pretty, put finger in flame to touch, get burned, cry buckets of tears, first birthday ruined...... all captured on film


Kim and Victor. June 1959

Kim and I are playing in our driveway at 39 East Signal Drive. Kim appears confused; she had every reason to be. Even at her young age, she knew the proper way to hold a baby bottle. I was a trial to her patience as seen in the photo above.

Have bottle, hold upside down, attempt to drink. I'm wondering if my mother thought I was a bit slow. Was that the nagging thought that kept her up at night?

I pleased to see I mastered the technique of riding a late 1950's model baby scooter. I needed it to get away from my sister. She could walk and run far better than me.

Charles, Kim, Luella, Victor and Grandma Elda. 1959

A family portrait taken in 1959. Charles was 23. Luella was 20. I'm sure Grandpa wanted me to look at the camera but my grandmother's whimsical faces were more interesting. Charles was her only child. We were her only grandchildren so we were the recipients of her undivided attention when she visited from New Mexico.


This picture was taken in the summer of 1960. We were on vacation in Bismarck, North Dakota.
This picture was taken outside the home of Grandpa Liessman's sister. Kim and I are the two younglings on the front row sitting with our parents and grandparents.

Bismarck, North Dakota. Summer 1960

I'm two years old. Kim is three. We're sitting with our mother and grandmother. I loved those zip up pajamas. I wonder if they come in my size today? Step in, pull up, put your arms through and zip up - instant comfort and security. The soles of the pajama feet are an added benefit for the older person. They have little plastic grips to prevent slipping? I'm told it's nearly impossible to buy me gifts - well there you have it. Take me back to 1960, get me a pair of yellow zip up pajamas with plastic anti slip grips.



August 13, 1963. A day that will live in Infamy. Janice and Jonathan Williamson joined our family. In one birthing our family grew from five to seven! Luella was only 24 years old. Janice is on the left (the elongated tongue gave her away).

I still remember that reddish leaf patterned carpet. It had zero plush so God help you if you ever fell out of your high chair. It was adequate to keep your feet from freezing on a cold South Dakota winter day.

You're looking down our duplex's one hallway. Charles and Luella had the first bedroom to the right. Kim, Kevin and I had the second bedroom on the right. The only door on the left was the bathroom. The accordion doors opened to a closet.

It's a wonder any of us survived to adulthood given the lack of scientific design in our early 1960's child car carriers. We'd strap the twins in the carriers, take them to the car and dump them onto the back seat. There was no need to buckle them in. Our 1958 blue Rambler Station wagon didn't have seatbelts. In those days we put our trust in God and hoped for the best. A plastic St. Christopher statue glued to the dashboard was an added amulet meant to garner additional heavenly protection for the road. Such a display of idolatry wouldn't bod well for our young family, having converted to Mormonism in 1958. Faith, prayer and a well placed trust in our mother's quick reactions and eye to hand coordination kept us safe until we bought our first car with belts and workable locks!

Jon and Janice. Summer 1963.

Is it just me or do these two look like an old elderly couple? Picture them out of their child restraints and in rocking chairs on a front porch on a late summer afternoon. Grandpa fell asleep with the newspaper. Knitting sent grandma to dozing. Their old yellow dog will wake them soon. Its out in the woods looking for raccoons. After supper it will be a bit of TV then bedtime.

Janice and Jon, 1964 / 65.

It's out of the bath just in time for a photograph. The Williamson's had company. Luella's brother was visiting from Spearfish. Uncle Jon was 22 years old.

Victor 7 years old. Kim 8 years old. Janice and Jon were 2. Kevin was 5.

I'm liking the fact that I had a bit of hair in this photo. Gone was the Russian Gulag hair cut accompanied by prison pallor. And wouldn't you know, Miss Picture Perfect Kim is just that, picture perfect. What's up with me with my hand stuck in my mouth?
This picture was taken shortly before our Uncle John left for his LDS mission to California.

Take a moment and enjoy our family's extensive art collection above the sofa. That's a paint by number Jesus (and I'm not kidding). And take a moment to stare at Kevin's shirt. Psychedelic man, real groovy. Today's kids got nothing on us. You want style? Look no further than the mid 1960's.


Another picture of the Williamson's shortly before moving from Signal Heights to our new rental home at 210 North 42nd Street, Rapid City. We needed a bigger home. Charles and Luella sold our duplex on Signal Heights to a lady for $1.00. The lady took over the bank payments. The move was hard on me. I had lovingly adopted a young struggling tree in our front yard and didn't want to leave it. In reality, our moving saved the tree. I was over zealous in my watering. It was also sad leaving my two best friends. Marty Gerber , Chucky Spears and I made the perfect Trio of Terror in our Signal Heights neighborhood.

Charles Williamson with his step father, Emerson Liessman. 1964.

A Family Outing with Friends to Rapid City's Story Book Island. 1964/65.
Luella took the picture.

And once again, get an eyeful of Little Miss Rapid City in perfect pose. Kim was such a camera hog. Nothing like the shy, diminutive, soft spoken and camera shy person she is today.

I look like cousin Dufus from Whitewood, come to visit his city cousins. I needed a pair of shorts that actually fit? Can you imagine my struggle going to the bathroom? Getting to the zipper through those multiple fold overs cinched up around my waist must have been the cause for many an accident.

Good Grief......

Running Through the Sprinkler. 1964/65.
Victor, Kim and Kevin with an unknown lad of a Family Friend.

The sprinkler was the height of summer fun for us in the mid 1960's. The nearest public swimming pool was miles away so we made do with what we had. Kevin is proudly showing off his muscles. He was hyper. You got use to it. What you didn't get use to were his tantrums. I'm convinced Kevin was an undiagnosed manic depressive. He ran circles around everyone when he was on top of the mood curve. When he'd hit bottom you ran for your life. He ran after you with anything, and I mean anything he could find that would cause death or severe injury if you crossed him. I grew up with bruises caused by Tonka Trucks travelling thrown across the room at fifty miles per hour. He knew he had one chance and one chance only to get Kim and I down crying. If he missed or didn't throw with everything he had, he knew we would beat the devil out of him.

Uncle Marvin and Aunt Pam. 1964/65.

Luella's youngest brother Marvin was visiting us the day our sprinkler picture was taken. I thought I'd finish this post with their picture. Aunt Pam sure turned a lot of heads - beautiful inside and out.

Simply,
Victor

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Williamson Photos. South Dakota. Jilane (1965 - Present)

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello All,
This photo album I'm posting from has no organization whatsoever. I was going to be lazy and post the pictures just as randomly as they appeared in the book. Now I've changed my mind. I'll try to put some organization to them. I've decided to post to a theme. Today's theme is 'Jilane Through the Ages (The Dark Ages in South Dakota to today's Age of Enlightenment)'. I'm not showing favorites, her baby picture was next up in the album.

26 year old Luella holding Jilane, her sixth child.
"
Jilane's features were like a china doll" according to Luella.
Spring 1965.

Jilane and Mother. A Close Up of the China Doll Face

This picture was taken in the Spring of 1965 while the Williamson family lived at 39 East Signal Drive, Rapid City, SD. At that time we lived in a double duplex connected by a removable door.
We had access to both homes at that time. It was fun. We had two kitchens, two bathrooms, four bedrooms and two living rooms. This picture is taken in the second duplex.

I remember the day Jilane was brought home. We sat on the sofa you see in the picture organized oldest, Kim, to Jon, youngest. I remember Charles coming in first, then Luella holding this tiny little thing wrapped tightly in a blanket. Kim held her first, and it was only for a minute or so, then my turn. I don't remember if that is when she started to cry, but it wouldn't have surprised me. I have that effect on babies.

There were six of us. Luella was 26. Charles was 29. Lisa came seven years later and then later still, Annette. Luella looks pretty good for having six kids under foot - an 8, 7, 4, two 2 year olds and a new baby! How she survived it I don't know. If there's a place in heaven for heroic, haggard mothers, Luella's will get there.


This is our next stop along Jilane's time line. We can see that Jilane has lost her 'china doll' preciousness by the time this photo was taken in 1970 :) You'd think this photo was taken in the mid 1950's if you based your judgement on the style of her glasses. Jilane has a lazy eye that required surgery to correct. She was Tipsy Tooty in those days - always a bit shell shocked from walking into walls and furniture.

Jilane is a fighter. With the surgery came a more natural appearance thus giving her the confidence to fight and claw her way from being 'runt' of the litter (coming in as number 6 in the family) into a somewhat intelligent girl with a seasonably fun personality.

She transitioned from 'Tooty" to "Jilane".

Lisa, Annette and Jilane, around 1977

Our next picture takes us forward a few years. We were living at 2214 38th Street in Rapid City. Jilane is around 12. She's being a good older sister in this picture. According to some - a rare event :)

Lisa and Jilane had their spats. Annette was too young to be able to defend herself so she was left out of much of it. They get along well today. Living 800 miles from each other helps :) although you'd never know it consider what they call each other when they answer the phone!
They are both spokeswomen for "Stubborn to a Fault Anonymous". It can be a real challenge to those of us who are Pliable to a Fault and always willing to sacrifice what he wants to do for the common good....... (and there will be no editing of this no matter how I may be threaten).

Jilane Graduating from Steven's High School in 1983

A happy day for the Williamsons to have another high school graduate. I don't see a golden tassel dangling from her cap. I'd mention that someone in the family had one on his graduation cap but that would be bragging, and some of us are modest to a fault.

Jilane retained much of what she learned at Stevens despite the time she spent at Ricks College in Rexburg Idaho, where she met the love of her life. She and Kevin transferred to BYU in Utah having discovered their time in Idaho was taking a toll on both their IQ's.

"Them winters was bad in Idaho," I remember her saying a week after moving to Utah. Thankfully after a few remedial classes, she was back to normal without any lasting damage.

Jilane married Kevin

This was the next big step in her life. From this wedding we have the following........

Jilane and Brayden. October 2011

The marriage of her second eldest son Brayden was the latest milestone in Jilane's life in October 2011. Its hard to believe she could be a year or two away from becoming Grandmother Jilane. I think Granny Tooty would be a better name.
I'm feeling quite old.

The Bodily family with daughter in law Jessica.

This is Jilane today.

Friday, October 21, 2011

Spearfish 1950's, A Wedding and the Wedding of their First Born

Autumn in Pleasant Grove
Click to Enlarge

From the Fortress of Solitude
Pleasant Grove

Hello All,
Its a beautiful Autumn day in Pleasant Grove. The picture above is of an LDS meetinghouse down the street from The Fortress. The colors are turning, the air is crisp. It is my favorite time of year.

Today we have more pictures in our mind numbing show and tell through the my photo albums of a simpler time in the wilds of Montana and South Dakota.

Luella Mattson. 1956
Spearfish, South Dakota. 17 years old.


June 17, 1956. Methodist Church. Spearfish South Dakota. Charles Williamson marries Luella Mattson. The cake is cut. The die is cast. Eight of us wait to make our appearances. All Hell is about to break loose :)

The Cake is Served.

Charles and Luella Williamson.
Summer of 1956.
Taken shortly after their Wedding Day.

Luella Mattson Williamson. December 1956.
Spearfish, South Dakota. 17 years old.
Six months Married to Charles Williamson.


Luella Mattson Williamson. July 1959. Spearfish Park, South Dakota. Kim and I are now part of the family. I'm assuming this was taken at the yearly Williamson Family Picnic.


The Wedding of Kim Williamson (Charles and Luella's First Born) to Mike Hendrickson. Rapid City, South Dakota. September 17, 1973


The Feeding of the Cake. This is the mystery photo. Notice the man looking at the camera in the bottom left of the photo. There are also other things seemingly superimposed on the photo. I don't know who the man is or how he came to be on the photo. I'm thinking this is a double photo (one picture taken over another) or we captured the spirit of a dearly departed coming to witness the wedding. Spooky huh?

Simply,
Victor